There are a couple of key ways in which one can cope with loneliness and overcome it. Loneliness is dependent upon your focus as opposed to your actual circumstances. You can be surrounded by others and yet still feel lonely. You can be alone and yet feel complete.
Unhappiness breeds unhappiness and happiness breeds happiness. How can you protect and foster your own happiness when the world around you is unhappy?
How do you set about the task of finding your perfect husband or wife? This is probably the most important decision you will ever make or job that you will undertake, and so there is all the more reason to approach this subject carefully and with much prior thought.
Overcoming insecurities is a must if you want to build good relationships. Otherwise you end up pushing people away and feeling lonely and rejected.